LIB is the most flawed “experiment” of all time. It’s so insane to me that people can claim to love someone who doesn’t know their most marginalizing characteristics or whether that person is a safe person to be around (IE: interracial relationships especially). And also, LOVE IS NOT BLIND BABES.
Anyone can get along through a wall for two weeks so testing the theory by seeing if they get married after so little time together in the real world is not testing anything, it’s just setting them up for failure. I have so many thoughts
But really interesting RE: being in DC and it being an election year. Great point
"LOVE IS NOT BLIND BABES" is killing me hahah but it's so true!! to your point, there are so many aspects about exterior appearance that affect day to day existence, it's not only silly but dangerous not to consider them.
and YES, I think it was on the podcast 2 Black Girls, 1 Rose, where I remember the hosts also talking about how the most egregious part of this is just the limited amount of time.
and ty for reading <3 hehe always love hearing your thoughts
LIB is the most flawed “experiment” of all time. It’s so insane to me that people can claim to love someone who doesn’t know their most marginalizing characteristics or whether that person is a safe person to be around (IE: interracial relationships especially). And also, LOVE IS NOT BLIND BABES.
Anyone can get along through a wall for two weeks so testing the theory by seeing if they get married after so little time together in the real world is not testing anything, it’s just setting them up for failure. I have so many thoughts
But really interesting RE: being in DC and it being an election year. Great point
"LOVE IS NOT BLIND BABES" is killing me hahah but it's so true!! to your point, there are so many aspects about exterior appearance that affect day to day existence, it's not only silly but dangerous not to consider them.
and YES, I think it was on the podcast 2 Black Girls, 1 Rose, where I remember the hosts also talking about how the most egregious part of this is just the limited amount of time.
and ty for reading <3 hehe always love hearing your thoughts